SUP
So update on my work situation.
The kids I wake up are the best part of my day
Its just easy.
Despite 6:45am seeming ealier each morning
When I get there
I wash a few dishes.
Feed their dogs
make breakfast
wake them up at 7:15
The two kids are not grumpy
kinda reserved due to moring grodg
I personally have bad internal timming with standard times so I've had to rush them out the door a few times.
Its usally a smooth morning.
I feel like either neutrual or benfited from our synegy.
SO
They're living with just their dad (divorced parents)
So He just started dating.
I two weeks ago became his 'girl friends' babysitter for her two year old
Its 3 hours every night M-F
She constantly will be asking for her mom
Its hard to redirect her mind when shes doing something like eating
I dont know the whole situation, but my baby has a long day of day care at 9am and than me until 9pm
We've been having bath-time.
At first it would be continues sobs the entire bath
Two weeks in she finally adjusting.
Although she HATES having her hair washed
My co-worker at the Toy Store I also work at told me about sensory problems her daughter has, making bath-time especially difficult.
Im suspucious of this, because she dislikes being barefoot. Although her mother has not insuiated to me that she dislikes bathtimes by her mom.
do you have "avoid socks At All Costs" sensory issues or do you have "must wear socks At All Times" sensory issues
— lazy perfectionist (@kazADHD) March 19, 2021
I'm also struggling with getting her to eat much of anything for dinner
She'll eat:
- ham
- bananas
- goldfish
- cheese
- fruit snacks
- blended fruit/veggie pouches
She would not eat:
- taco seasoned ground beef
- scrambelled eggs
- spagetti squash
- sweet potatoe
I noticed shes a slow slow slow eater and likes to save her meat for last
When she really likes the food she shovels it in our mouth
holds as much as she can in her chubby cheeks
and will chew and chat.
She sometimes says sentences very clearly
No is her favorite word. But she doesn't entirely use it correctly at all
Ex. Do you want more? response: NO
Moments later shes whinning when I go to clean up her plate
She goes eehh-ehh-eh!! when ever she wants something
Im starting to find it incredibly annoying
So she learning to say please
shes a terrible sharer and grabs things out of my hands.
I honeslty - I don't know if I like it
Ealier this week I was thinking about quitting
School fills most of my spare moments
Ill stay up after she leaves and shower and watch some TV to unwind
I just need to do some maintence in my enviroment so I'm hoping the academic break will catch me up.
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